Dating Safety

Your safety is our priority. Please read these guidelines carefully.

Never send money to someone you met on MySpec.

Take time to know someone before sharing personal financial information.

Report anyone requesting money, investments, cryptocurrency payments, or emergency financial assistance.

Safety Tips

Verify identity first

Only engage with verified profiles. The verified badge means their identity has been confirmed.

Keep conversations on MySpec

Don't rush to move to other platforms. MySpec's reporting and blocking tools protect you here.

Meet in public

When meeting in person, choose a public place and tell a friend or family member where you're going.

Trust your instincts

If something feels off, it probably is. Block and report suspicious behavior immediately.

Protect your personal information

Don't share your home address, financial details, or sensitive documents with someone you just met.

Be cautious with photos

Be mindful of what you share. Don't send compromising photos to someone you haven't met in person.

Red Flags

  • Requests for money, gift cards, or crypto
  • Claims of sudden emergencies requiring financial help
  • Investment opportunities that seem too good to be true
  • Refusal to video call or meet in person
  • Quick declarations of love before meeting
  • Inconsistencies in their story or profile
  • Pressure to leave MySpec quickly
  • Asking for your banking or financial details